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Avoiding humour in Business or Job Hunting. Then the joke’s on you ….

humourI believe humour has no place in business, careers or job hunting. It is important to be upright, professional and not lower yourself with attempts to win new friends, career or business opportunities through humour. After all it is common knowledge that you cannot be successful if you are laughing too much. It is important that you all (business owners, professionals or jobseekers) act in a serious manner and stop fooling around.

Ok enough of that as I am starting to sound like a grown up. For me the complete opposite is true. Throughout my early career I followed the above advice and kept work and humour apart. As time passed I realised that I had been ignoring a very powerful tool to help me successfully navigate the serious world of business and job hunting. “Good humour is a tonic for mind and body. It is the best antidote for anxiety and depression. It is a business asset. It attracts and keeps friends. It lightens human burdens. It is the direct route to serenity and contentment” – Greenville Kleisser.

4 reasons why you should embrace humour

Become a better communicator – I don’t know about you but I love listening to someone who can integrate humour into their message.
It grabs my attention and holds it. I guess this is kind of important when you are trying to get your point across. Humour can deliver active listening which is important when networking, presenting, meeting or job interviewing. Many people miss the fact that humour is a great way to get your message across even if it is a serious message.

Win more friends – I love engaging with my funny and positive friends and always accept their calls or requests to meet. I apologise to any friends I haven’t spoken to or met with for some time – the truth is out :-) “Good humour is one of the best articles of dress one can wear in society” – William Makepeace Thackeray. They say networking is the key to job hunting and business success in these tough times. Next time you step out into the world of networking (real world or online) don’t be afraid to let your humour run wild. Humour will help you grow your network and win new friends (Guess what it works – you already have one new friend – me!!)

Win more opportunities – Personally I don’t want to work with misery guts or work for misery guts. “For me, compatibility is a sense of humour, being able to laugh together; that is very important” – Felicity Kendal. I agree!! Should you use humour at job interviews – it never held me back. Should you use humour at business meetings/presentations – never held me back. If anything humour has opened many more doors than it has closed. Did I lose out on opportunities? Perhaps BUT then again did I really lose out?

Reduce stress and fear – Taking ourselves too seriously can have a negative impact on achieving our goals.  Humour and laughter lowers anxiety, releases tension and pressure but also helps diminish fear. “You can turn painful situations around through laughter. If you can find humour in anything, even poverty, you can survive it” – Bill Crosby. Perhaps we make growing a business or job hunting more pressurised, stressful and fearful by taking away an important release valve in humour/laughter.

If you agree with the above views then post a comment or share a funny business/job hunting story that will make me laugh. If you disagree with the above views then please post your full name so I can do everything in my power to ensure that we never meet :-)

The Author:

Career expert with deep and current knowledge (Self-Marketing, CVs, Job Search, Interviews & Social Media). Business owner and therefore a jobseeker - I’ve been hunting jobs daily for the last decade - I walk the talk. http://www.measurability.ie

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  • paulmullan
    Thanks Elaine

    Don't know what came over me that first paragraph but luckily I snapped out of it.

    Nice quote

    P
  • I was actually laughing as I read the first paragraph (mostly at myself, as I was disagreeing with it immensely), however, I sensed what you were going to say next.
    I use humour a lot in training and coaching sessions (great skill to have in both). Sometimes my analogies get the better of me, and I often end up looking a bit silly, but it tones down the serious mood that one often finds at the beginning of a training session. If we couldn't laugh? - "Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing." ~Ken Kesey
  • paulmullan
    @Barney – Cheers Barney. Yes it has proved my “get out of jail” in the past too :-)

    @Niall – Very true Niall. Online humour is great and works with social media. My difficulty is that people don’t always get my humour and it kills my joke having to send an email to explain it or worse a bunch of virtual flowers :-)

    @Lewis – For me Crashing & Burning is all part of the excitement.

    @Angela – Very good story – love it. I’d have hired you too!!

    @Greg – I am thankful for laughter except when I am bench-pressing free weights – Happened the other day and was quite embarrassing.
  • lol, somehow I think you do fine :)
  • gregfry
    I am thankful for laughter, except when milk comes out of my nose. ~Woody Allen
  • Hi Paul,

    Loved this piece! Athough it sounds counterintuitive, having your sense of humour locked and loaded, shows you are at ease with yourself and your surroundings - and there's nothing as attractive as confidence!

    When I first graduated from university, sometime back in the Paleolithic era, it was mid-recession and took almost a year to get a job. By the time I landed an interview, I'd already decided to go back to uni and re-train, so the pressure to make a good impression was off.

    I arrived at the office and was taken up flight after flight of stairs through a rambling building to the interview location - a conference room on the very top floor. As I entered, somewhat out of breath from lugging a suitcase-sized portfolio all the way, I walked forward laughing and shook the interviewers' hands, saying, 'I didn't realise there would a fitness assessment as well as an interview!'

    They both looked blank for a moment and then burst out laughing, apologising profusely for it being the only room available.

    It set the tone for the very positive discussion that followed. And, yes - I got the job!

  • LewisEvans
    I saw a nice quote the other day: "The love of truth lies at the root of much humour."

    On the other hand, in these days of international social mixing, we have to be aware, as Virginia Woolf said, that "Humour is the first of the gifts to perish in a foreign tongue."

    Been there, done that!
  • Paul, Do an average post just to make the rest of us feel better :).... seriously though, great points raised why humour is a powerful and necessary business tool. I also think that you can extend all of these points to the online business world and social media.
  • Most excellent Paul. A man after my own heart. In the past I've often used humour to diffuse awkward situations when things have gone "pear shaped" with a customer in a meeting. It works too - breaks the tension and allows things to get sorted.
  • paulmullan
    Thanks Fred - Nice video - Been killed a few times by powerpoint :-)
  • Brilliant Paul!... as usual. I'm definitely with the laughter club. It definitely makes your day easier and better.
    Speaking of humor in business, yesterday Niall shared a very cool video on the Bloggertone Facebook page about the typical mistakes when presenting with Power Point... Have look at the following video and share it with anyone in business, especially those that you know where horrible at presenting... You'll get a laugh out of them as well! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpvgfmEU2Ck
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